The biggest mistake most men make here is to only try and pick up girls in a classic pick-up situation - such as a pub or a nightclub.
When you think about it these are some of the HARDEST places to score - because they are packed with men trying to
do the same and there are ALWAYS more men than girls.
The EASIEST places to score are those daily life situations, well away from the pressure of the dance floor. Every time you go
out of the house is an opportunity to score . Remember this simple rule - THE MORE OFTEN A GIRL MEETS YOU IN A
DAILY LIFE SITUATION THE MORE LIKELY SHE IS TO DATE YOU. One-off pick ups with complete strangers often
lead to no more than one night stands which, at the end of the day, will not be enough to keep you satisfied.
How to Pick Up at Work
The work situation is a very good place to pick up - assuming you work with sufficient numbers of attractive girls . If you haven't
already make sure you do the rounds of all the suitable girls at work. Usually, the easiest ways for getting to know a girl you
fancy are to show an interest in what she does, or ask her for help with your work. If you can't - ask her to do you some kind of
FAVOUR - such as that bit of photocopying or picking you up some sandwiches when she goes to the shop.
Another good idea is to go for a PART TIME JOB. Here you'll meet girls as CUSTOMERS not colleagues. A lot of them find
that bit of power over you very attractive! . Good jobs to take are in pubs, clubs, shops and petrol stations. Check the place
out before you apply to make sure it attracts sufficient talent.
How to Pick Up in Pubs and Clubs
Pubs and night-clubs are the classic pick-up places but. as I’ve said. not always the best. The secret of being successful is not
WHAT you say. but WHERE YOU GO.
If you're young, try somewhere that attracts mainly older men and you'll be hot property with the girls there. If you’re older try
somewhere that attracts younger girls, who go for maturity. If you're working, try pubs and clubs in student areas. If you're a
student, try the business places. Girls crave excitement and a change of routine and are drawn to any new men who don't make
up part of their usual scene.
How to Pick Up On Holiday
Holidays are definitely a good time to score. Those 18-30 type holidays do live up to their reputation and the liveliest foreign
resorts are Magalluf (Majorca), San Antonio Ibiza), Playa de Las Americas (Tenerife), Playa del Ingles (Gran Canaria), Kavos
(Corfu), Faliraki (Rhodes), Kardamena (Kos) and Malia (Crete).
Remember that few girls dare holiday alone. She'll usually be with a friend. So it's much easier if you take a mate too to make up
the foursome. You don't need complicated excuses to pick up on holiday - just ask her where the beach/bars/shops are etc..
How to Pick Up At Parties
Parties are the classic pick up place. Make sure you get invited or invite yourself to as many as possible - or hold them yourself.
Girls take hours to get ready for parties so your appearance is particularly important. Once there keep in the centre of the action
- don't hide in the kitchen etc.
Avoid worn-out party pick ups like 'Do you want another drink?' etc. Use people-talk openers like 'Do you know Steve?' or
'Do you know Jane? Is she coming tonight?', or 'Have you seen Jo?' .
Girls are more interested - and feel more secure about getting into a conversation with you - if you give the impression you're a
regular party-animal type.
How to Pick Up On Trains, Buses, and in the Street
If you're used to going everywhere by car you're making a BIG mistake. I don't know any man who's pulled while driving . But
what about trains, buses and just walking down the street. Here’s an opportunity to meet THOUSANDS of eligible girls .
But don't use this method when it's dark and the streets are empty, which can be threatening. The best times are when it’s
BUSY - then she'll feel safe and a lot happier about being chatted up. It's also easier for you. What better excuse do you need
to sit next to AND TALK TO a girl than to ask if the seat next to her is free ? Other good excuses include asking 'Can you tell
me the way to ... wherever?' or even just 'I think I'm lost!
How to Pick Up Using Dating Agencies
Most men AND girls I've talked to say it's well worth trying the reputable dating agencies - especially the ones advertised in the
main newspapers and magazines. Some of them actually have a SHORTAGE of men . In a year's membership you could easily
get over a hundred introductions, many of whom will be eager girls calling up and ASKING YOU to go out with them!
Some Other Good Places to Pick Up
* Sports Centres
Not only can you score, but you can get fit too! . If you're good at a particular sport then watching you rarely fails to impress
most girls. If you're not into sports, take one up. And it's best if it's one where you can play with girls such as tennis, badminton,
swimming, martial arts, even aerobics etc . This is something a lot of girls find quite attractive.
* Evening Classes, Clubs and Societies etc.
Yes! Evening classes are good hunting grounds. They usually have more girls than men and it's a good atmosphere for getting to
know people easily. See what's going on in your area and try some classes out. You can easily leave if there’s not enough talent
on offer. It’s best to go on enrolment night and join the most promising looking class .
The same applies to local clubs and societies-such as drama clubs etc.-except it’s harder if you are not actually interested in
what’s going on !
* The Shops
Didn't you know that shopping can be a pick-up opportunity ? Well, a recent survey said that supermarket late-night shopping
sessions attract mostly single people - with Wednesday being the big night! Offer to do your mum’s and granny's shopping too -
it could be a lot more exciting than you think. Girls are VERY attracted to men who are big enough to do things that are
considered girl's work.
Also :
* Open accounts at your local bank and building societies . ( The staff are mostly girls.)
* Get your hair cut by a girl.
* Fill your car up at petrol stations with girls cashiers.
* Pay your bills in person , not by post.
* Libraries have more going for them than you think.
* Museums and art galleries can be worth a try too !
In other words - MAKE EXCUSES IF YOU HAVE TO. Every successful man does it. Maybe you don't want to know about
train times but if there's a gorgeous looking girl in the travel agents - why not?
Once you're seeing and meeting as many new girls as possible you can bring this proven four point plan into operation :
1 . The Open-Up Level : Making contact with girls you fancy.
2. The Chat-Up Level : Letting them know you're interested, and getting them interested in you.
3. The Warm-Up Level : Getting them to fancy you.
4. The Seduction Level : Developing a closer relationship!
