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Friday, 12 August 2011

HOW TO GET NOTICED IN A ROOM FULL OF GIRLS


How to turn her head
Now , most men judge a girl by how she looks . Is it the same for girls? The simple answer is no . Again , girls are a bit more
complex than that! Before being really attracted to you they’ll weigh you up as a complete package , and not just take you on
your looks .
But girls are attracted to men who’ve made an effort . After all , she probably spent 3 hours getting ready for her night out! Here
are some tricks that will help make sure SHE sees you before YOU see HER!
What to Wear
So just what sort of clothes turn girls on? Now. I'd have said a suit, but they're well down the list. In a survey in one of the girls’
mags EIGHT out of TEN girls said they find JEANS the sexiest thing a man can wear. They can be as old as you want but they
should always be clean. Plus, make sure they are as tight as possible round the waist and fit well round the backside - because
this is the ONLY part of a man's body that girls can't resist!
T-shirts and sweatshirts are usually better than open-necked shirts. If you’ve got a decent body then show her it with a T-shirt
that's a size too small. If you haven't bulk up with a baggy one. Bomber jackets are better than suit jackets or anoraks - these
give you the tight waist-big chest look which most girls admire.
Dirty or worn shoes are a big turn-off apparently, and clean black or brown shoes or boots are much better than trainers which
never look clean and can easily smell.
Hair Etc.
When it comes to hair - skin head - shoulder length - whatever style you like is fine. But it must be a proper style that is regularly
cut or styled and CLEAN .
Clean shaven is in . That survey said that most girls think beards are a turn-off. Unshaven stubble might go down well with her
the next morning, but the night before it just makes you look dirty .
Girls worry about their skin like crazy and she'll run a mile before getting close to a spotty face! If you’ve got any spots get rid
of them with one of those anti-bacterial face washes.
What Do You Smell Like ?
Girls have got ultra-sensitive noses and so it's vital to smell right if you want success. Never, go out smelling the slightest bit
sweaty because she'll come nowhere near you.
This means a bath or shower before every date - especially if your work makes you smell of anything strong.
Use unperfumed soaps and deodorants so you can smell clean without smelling like a flower shop. And girls do go for a good
aftershave - that means the expensive stuff! You'd be amazed how many girls can tell the different brands. But do use small
amounts so you don't cover up your natural smell - men give off a natural musk smell which girls are attracted to .
If you smoke this will reduce your chances with non-smoking girls. Plus, I don't know any girls who like stale-beer-flavoured
breath - so a mouthwash or spray is a good idea.
Clean hands and properly cut nails are another thing girls notice .
What She REALLY Goes For
It's not what you think. Again, those magazine surveys have shown time and time again that most girls judge a man’s
attractiveness by his - EYES!!
So, it always pays to make sure your eyes are bright. If you're tired use eye drops to avoid that red-eye look. If you wear
glasses then make sure they suit you, or consider contact lenses. Plus, wearing sunglasses may look cool but it's a sure and
certain way to AVOID getting noticed by girls.
As I said before, overall build is much less important to most girls than your personality - Though it's a lie to say that a decent
body won't attract their glances. In the same survey the things girls found sexiest, after EYES, were a firm BOTTOM, a decent
sized CHEST and finally - a suntan. Most girls weren't turned on by body-builder types and not one said they found the
contents of a man's boxer shorts attracted them.
What You Probably Didn't Know About Her
Most girls have got an amazing inferiority complex about THEIR own appearance.
They always worry that they are too fat/thin, their hair is a mess, skirt is half an inch too long or short etc. Yes this even applies
to the most stunning ones!
So, it always pays to make the best of your appearance and never think she's too good for you. Because then, in most cases,
with all the faults she THINKS she has it will usually be HER that feels she isn't good enough for YOU!

Saturday, 16 July 2011

Business Networking Online - Why Do It?

In short, because your business's very survival depends on it. The tools you need to learn about and how to use and start using are easier than you think. So if you haven't gotten started, you need to get started now.
You must learn how to do this or be left behind. It's as simple as that.
Of course, nothing is more effective than good ole fashioned, face-to-face Business Networking. Referral Based Marketing is still about meeting in person. In person meeting is still the strongest tool in building relationships. The Online world merely lets you connect with more people a lot faster.
In today's competitive marketplace you need every edge you can get.
The Online world not only gives you the ability to make more new connections faster, but also gives you the ability to find your target market faster. This Social Media Technology gives you the ability to leverage your time in a powerful way.
What should I do first? LinkedIn? Facebook? Twitter?
Twitter and Facebook have their place in the Business Networking Online world, but if you are just starting out, start with LinkedIn. The other two can come later, but first things first. Maximize your use of LinkedIn.
Remember, online tools like LinkedIn are just that, tools. Like the other tools, Linkedin can be used in many different ways depending upon what you want to achieve. This discussion is part of using advanced techniques which is a topic for another article. Let me just say, LinkedIn is good for expanding your scope for a job search and will become more valuable over time but it's really powerful tool for referral based marketing campaigns as an aid to business networking professionals.
Here are some quick start suggestions to get you up to speed with the Linkedin tool.
10 LinkedIn Quick Start Tips -
1. If you don't have one, setup a LinkedIn account. It takes about 5 minutes. Start with the free account. The benefits a paid Linkedin account is an advanced topic outside the scope of this article.
2. Your LinkedIn Profile must be complete and most importantly, keyword optimized for search. Hint: Keep tweaking your LinkedIn Profile as it's the center piece of the tool.
3. You will find great videos to watch about using LinkedIn at the LinkedIn YouTube Channel. Watch them all at least once. Become proficient in using LinkedIn's Advanced Features along with other areas of the site. Just like learning to use any tool, you need to know it well to make money with it.
4. You must participate in LinkedIn Groups. Be active. Select Groups where your target audience is located versus hanging out with other folks just like you. Figure out how to get in front of people who may want to hire you if you're seeking employment or potential synergistic referral business partners if you're a business networker. Engage in Discussions that matter to the Group versus yourself. You want to engage other participants.
5. Start by Searching for and joining LinkedIn Groups. I am the Co-Founder of the Groups called Palm Beach Business Connection, Broward Business Connection, Dade Business Connection, Martin County Business Connection. These are examples of well organized and well moderated business networking groups for South Florida local business professional. These Groups foster referral based business networking by providing the appropriate amount and type of structure and programs to help its members to succeed. Search for them and see for yourself.
FYI - Be aware that most of the LinkedIn Groups are Spammy bulletin boards because they are not managed well. You'll find out a lot the quality of the Group when you attempt to connect with its members. Try lots of Groups then narrow the field based on results.
6. You must grow your LinkedIn Connections List large. Thought some folks believe you should connect only with people you actually know and be selective, etc, personally, I like to connect with everyone who wants so connect and then I'll search for my targets using the LinkedIn Advanced Search Features. Once again it depends on your own marketing objectives.2
7. Start searching for people you know and invite to connect. You have 3,000 LinkedIn Invitations to spend and that's it. There are plenty of other ways to Connect with folks so don't worry too much about this for now. Such advanced topics are outside the scope of this article.
Just get started Connecting now.
8. Try a service like TopLink to grow your list for you even faster.
9. Start turning your Connections into Relationships. When you connect with someone, send then a message to connect with you in a different way, like a phone call. Be sure to use your Business Networking skills and start to deepen the relationship by asking how you can help them.
Here's an idea: Just pick up the phone and start calling people who connected with you and say, "I just want thank you for connecting with me. How are you doing? How can I help you?"
10. Have fun with this. Seriously, the journey is a big part of this relationship building experience. If you invest the time and effort and get in the preceding 9 steps down to a science, it will become so much fun you won't feel like you're working when you are doing your Business Networking activities.
Business networking, like any marketing process, is about numbers. The more business professionals that you can meet in the shortest period maximizes your earnings potential. Using LinkedIn will greatly help leverage your time in this effort. Not using it well will but you at a competitive disadvantage.
Jeff Manz - is the Computer Guy Extraordinaire and Master Business Networker. He has received his basic training with almost 5 and a half years perfecting his craft with BNI.

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