How to Attract Girls to You Without Saying a Word

Even today, not many girls will chat up men or ask them out . For a start, they're brought up not to , and rejection hurts them
much more than it does us. Plus they think if you’re a man worth going out with you've got to have the guts to ask them!
What girls will do though is give off SIGNALS that they want to be chatted up. Most men don't know what these are. The
secret to being successful is to know what these signals are and whenever you go out look out for these. If you get just ONE
signal then swing into action IMMEDIATELY !
Remember, there's only one part of a man's body that most girls will melt for - and it's not what you think - it's your EYES.
So, the first step to scoring is to make GOOD STRONG EYE CONTACT with any girl you fancy. It doesn't matter what you
look like - If you have a good, strong gaze it can TURN HER ON.
(Most men go wrong here - by looking at a girl's legs or breasts no way can you attract her to you.)
The minute you walk into a room start looking at every girl you fancy. Even if you think she's far too stunning to ever go out with
you. And look at her eyes. Make full eye contact. And give her a smile too. Don't leer or glare. This is a sure fire way to get the
chemistry going. It tells her she's under scrutiny and in this situation there is no way a girl cannot react one way or the other.
Finally remember - The best looking girls are often short of dates because few men dare to make EYE CONTACT with them.
The better looking she is the more likely she is to warm to eye contact .

The Top Six Places to Pick Up Girls

The biggest mistake most men make here is to only try and pick up girls in a classic pick-up situation - such as a pub or a nightclub.
When you think about it these are some of the HARDEST places to score - because they are packed with men trying to
do the same and there are ALWAYS more men than girls.
The EASIEST places to score are those daily life situations, well away from the pressure of the dance floor. Every time you go
out of the house is an opportunity to score . Remember this simple rule - THE MORE OFTEN A GIRL MEETS YOU IN A
DAILY LIFE SITUATION THE MORE LIKELY SHE IS TO DATE YOU. One-off pick ups with complete strangers often
lead to no more than one night stands which, at the end of the day, will not be enough to keep you satisfied.
How to Pick Up at Work
The work situation is a very good place to pick up - assuming you work with sufficient numbers of attractive girls . If you haven't
already make sure you do the rounds of all the suitable girls at work. Usually, the easiest ways for getting to know a girl you
fancy are to show an interest in what she does, or ask her for help with your work. If you can't - ask her to do you some kind of
FAVOUR - such as that bit of photocopying or picking you up some sandwiches when she goes to the shop.
Another good idea is to go for a PART TIME JOB. Here you'll meet girls as CUSTOMERS not colleagues. A lot of them find
that bit of power over you very attractive! . Good jobs to take are in pubs, clubs, shops and petrol stations. Check the place
out before you apply to make sure it attracts sufficient talent.
How to Pick Up in Pubs and Clubs
Pubs and night-clubs are the classic pick-up places but. as I’ve said. not always the best. The secret of being successful is not
WHAT you say. but WHERE YOU GO.
If you're young, try somewhere that attracts mainly older men and you'll be hot property with the girls there. If you’re older try
somewhere that attracts younger girls, who go for maturity. If you're working, try pubs and clubs in student areas. If you're a
student, try the business places. Girls crave excitement and a change of routine and are drawn to any new men who don't make
up part of their usual scene.
How to Pick Up On Holiday
Holidays are definitely a good time to score. Those 18-30 type holidays do live up to their reputation and the liveliest foreign
resorts are Magalluf (Majorca), San Antonio Ibiza), Playa de Las Americas (Tenerife), Playa del Ingles (Gran Canaria), Kavos
(Corfu), Faliraki (Rhodes), Kardamena (Kos) and Malia (Crete).
Remember that few girls dare holiday alone. She'll usually be with a friend. So it's much easier if you take a mate too to make up
the foursome. You don't need complicated excuses to pick up on holiday - just ask her where the beach/bars/shops are etc..
How to Pick Up At Parties
Parties are the classic pick up place. Make sure you get invited or invite yourself to as many as possible - or hold them yourself.
Girls take hours to get ready for parties so your appearance is particularly important. Once there keep in the centre of the action
- don't hide in the kitchen etc.
Avoid worn-out party pick ups like 'Do you want another drink?' etc. Use people-talk openers like 'Do you know Steve?' or
'Do you know Jane? Is she coming tonight?', or 'Have you seen Jo?' .
Girls are more interested - and feel more secure about getting into a conversation with you - if you give the impression you're a
regular party-animal type.
How to Pick Up On Trains, Buses, and in the Street
If you're used to going everywhere by car you're making a BIG mistake. I don't know any man who's pulled while driving . But
what about trains, buses and just walking down the street. Here’s an opportunity to meet THOUSANDS of eligible girls .
But don't use this method when it's dark and the streets are empty, which can be threatening. The best times are when it’s
BUSY - then she'll feel safe and a lot happier about being chatted up. It's also easier for you. What better excuse do you need
to sit next to AND TALK TO a girl than to ask if the seat next to her is free ? Other good excuses include asking 'Can you tell
me the way to ... wherever?' or even just 'I think I'm lost!
How to Pick Up Using Dating Agencies
Most men AND girls I've talked to say it's well worth trying the reputable dating agencies - especially the ones advertised in the
main newspapers and magazines. Some of them actually have a SHORTAGE of men . In a year's membership you could easily
get over a hundred introductions, many of whom will be eager girls calling up and ASKING YOU to go out with them!
Some Other Good Places to Pick Up
* Sports Centres
Not only can you score, but you can get fit too! . If you're good at a particular sport then watching you rarely fails to impress
most girls. If you're not into sports, take one up. And it's best if it's one where you can play with girls such as tennis, badminton,
swimming, martial arts, even aerobics etc . This is something a lot of girls find quite attractive.
* Evening Classes, Clubs and Societies etc.
Yes! Evening classes are good hunting grounds. They usually have more girls than men and it's a good atmosphere for getting to
know people easily. See what's going on in your area and try some classes out. You can easily leave if there’s not enough talent
on offer. It’s best to go on enrolment night and join the most promising looking class .
The same applies to local clubs and societies-such as drama clubs etc.-except it’s harder if you are not actually interested in
what’s going on !
* The Shops
Didn't you know that shopping can be a pick-up opportunity ? Well, a recent survey said that supermarket late-night shopping
sessions attract mostly single people - with Wednesday being the big night! Offer to do your mum’s and granny's shopping too -
it could be a lot more exciting than you think. Girls are VERY attracted to men who are big enough to do things that are
considered girl's work.
Also :
* Open accounts at your local bank and building societies . ( The staff are mostly girls.)
* Get your hair cut by a girl.
* Fill your car up at petrol stations with girls cashiers.
* Pay your bills in person , not by post.
* Libraries have more going for them than you think.
* Museums and art galleries can be worth a try too !
In other words - MAKE EXCUSES IF YOU HAVE TO. Every successful man does it. Maybe you don't want to know about
train times but if there's a gorgeous looking girl in the travel agents - why not?
Once you're seeing and meeting as many new girls as possible you can bring this proven four point plan into operation :
1 . The Open-Up Level : Making contact with girls you fancy.
2. The Chat-Up Level : Letting them know you're interested, and getting them interested in you.
3. The Warm-Up Level : Getting them to fancy you.
4. The Seduction Level : Developing a closer relationship!

HOW TO GET NOTICED IN A ROOM FULL OF GIRLS

How to turn her head
Now , most men judge a girl by how she looks . Is it the same for girls? The simple answer is no . Again , girls are a bit more
complex than that! Before being really attracted to you they’ll weigh you up as a complete package , and not just take you on
your looks .
But girls are attracted to men who’ve made an effort . After all , she probably spent 3 hours getting ready for her night out! Here
are some tricks that will help make sure SHE sees you before YOU see HER!
What to Wear
So just what sort of clothes turn girls on? Now. I'd have said a suit, but they're well down the list. In a survey in one of the girls’
mags EIGHT out of TEN girls said they find JEANS the sexiest thing a man can wear. They can be as old as you want but they
should always be clean. Plus, make sure they are as tight as possible round the waist and fit well round the backside - because
this is the ONLY part of a man's body that girls can't resist!
T-shirts and sweatshirts are usually better than open-necked shirts. If you’ve got a decent body then show her it with a T-shirt
that's a size too small. If you haven't bulk up with a baggy one. Bomber jackets are better than suit jackets or anoraks - these
give you the tight waist-big chest look which most girls admire.
Dirty or worn shoes are a big turn-off apparently, and clean black or brown shoes or boots are much better than trainers which
never look clean and can easily smell.
Hair Etc.
When it comes to hair - skin head - shoulder length - whatever style you like is fine. But it must be a proper style that is regularly
cut or styled and CLEAN .
Clean shaven is in . That survey said that most girls think beards are a turn-off. Unshaven stubble might go down well with her
the next morning, but the night before it just makes you look dirty .
Girls worry about their skin like crazy and she'll run a mile before getting close to a spotty face! If you’ve got any spots get rid
of them with one of those anti-bacterial face washes.
What Do You Smell Like ?
Girls have got ultra-sensitive noses and so it's vital to smell right if you want success. Never, go out smelling the slightest bit
sweaty because she'll come nowhere near you.
This means a bath or shower before every date - especially if your work makes you smell of anything strong.
Use unperfumed soaps and deodorants so you can smell clean without smelling like a flower shop. And girls do go for a good
aftershave - that means the expensive stuff! You'd be amazed how many girls can tell the different brands. But do use small
amounts so you don't cover up your natural smell - men give off a natural musk smell which girls are attracted to .
If you smoke this will reduce your chances with non-smoking girls. Plus, I don't know any girls who like stale-beer-flavoured
breath - so a mouthwash or spray is a good idea.
Clean hands and properly cut nails are another thing girls notice .
What She REALLY Goes For
It's not what you think. Again, those magazine surveys have shown time and time again that most girls judge a man’s
attractiveness by his - EYES!!
So, it always pays to make sure your eyes are bright. If you're tired use eye drops to avoid that red-eye look. If you wear
glasses then make sure they suit you, or consider contact lenses. Plus, wearing sunglasses may look cool but it's a sure and
certain way to AVOID getting noticed by girls.
As I said before, overall build is much less important to most girls than your personality - Though it's a lie to say that a decent
body won't attract their glances. In the same survey the things girls found sexiest, after EYES, were a firm BOTTOM, a decent
sized CHEST and finally - a suntan. Most girls weren't turned on by body-builder types and not one said they found the
contents of a man's boxer shorts attracted them.
What You Probably Didn't Know About Her
Most girls have got an amazing inferiority complex about THEIR own appearance.
They always worry that they are too fat/thin, their hair is a mess, skirt is half an inch too long or short etc. Yes this even applies
to the most stunning ones!
So, it always pays to make the best of your appearance and never think she's too good for you. Because then, in most cases,
with all the faults she THINKS she has it will usually be HER that feels she isn't good enough for YOU!